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Useful advice: how to get married.
Advice 3. How to increase the chances? (Continuation)

Whether you believe in God or not there is something that helps us to achieve our aim. Prayer is something that creates a clear image of your own aim and this way works during centuries. If you don't move out real requests, you cannot get anything you are really striving to.

When you begin to get letters, firstly you will be very happy. You will be so happy that you will answer all men. In some time a number of letters will increase and you will not be able to manage with them. You will have lack of time to write all letters. A lot of received letters will be touching and you will want to answer them in the affirmative, even if a man is not your ideal. DON'T DO IT! Searching a partner through a marriage agency is wonderful because you can find a man you need. Do yourself happy!
Begin to sort out your letters at once.
If a man doesn't match you, don't correspond with him. It seems to you that it's cruel, but it's cruel to make a hope for a man that is unrealizable. Be manly to tell the truth - for example, a man is too old for you or he is low educated. Your sincere answer will help him to choose another woman that matchers him.

Formulate your requests distinctly, when you go to a marriage agency or give your personal advertisement. Important things - age height, build, education, and race. These requests must sound distinctly. Other requests, such as traits of character, economic conditions characterize your nature than your partner.

Answer all received letters. Inform a man that he doesn't match you. Send his photo off. You will have to spend money for envelope and stamp, but it should do. To be honest is a good thing and if you are going to live on the West, please have such habit. It will be useful.
Men will not take offence at you, on the contrary, you will get several letters with gratitude for your negative answer. This way you can get acquainted with a lot of people, also, it is very pleasant to have friends, who wish you well.
Answer opportunely.

Answer letters at once. Russian life is not very easy and sometimes we have a desire to postpone our answer. The result of it that you write your answer after a month. It means for foreign man: 1) lack of respect 2) contempt 3) lack of interest. They don't understand why you couldn't find time to answer for some weeks.

If a marriage agency gets letters for you, call them at the minimum once a week. Don't allow your letters to be there for several weeks --there is not any use from belated answers.

Use e-mail
No one man sends letters to one girl, at the minimum he sends to 4-6 girls. He can correspond with other women at that moment when he gets your answer.

Use e-mail. E-mail becomes a kind of drugs for many foreign people. To check e-mail became a habit, and people send reports to each other more often then they call. When you have a computer at home, it seems absurd to you to send letters by post and wait for answer for several months. Using e-mail you get a great advantage over other women.
1. Your relations with men will develop in ten times quicker.
2. You will look an educated and modern woman.
3. In fact 100% of well-off and educated men in America have a computer at home (in Europe and Australia there are less men who have computers) - you will correspond with the best candidates.
You can use e-mail in Internet - cafe, on the post or in the public library. Look through different advertisements in newspapers, certainly you find a suitable variant.

You should answer reports, which you get by e-mail opportunely too - it is desirable that you answer on the same day. If you don't have this possibility, write in your letters the information about how often you check your e-mail that a man knows when he can get your answer..

In principle, it is acceptable to answer letters once a week, but in this case your letter should be more interesting. Write it beforehand, copy it on the diskette and simply enter small additions for every man - answers his questions or short comments to any theme from his letters to do your letter personal. Copy letters on the diskette or print to read them in detail at home. Prepare personal additions for every man.

Think over the possibility of buying a computer for home. If you have a telephone you can link up to Internet yourself. You can think that the buying of a computer is luxury but you don't think so about the buying of a sheepskin coat or winter boots. You know exactly that you need these things.
But probably, if you buy a computer instead of winter clothes, you don't need a sheepskin coat a next winter - in California people don't wear it. Begin to spend money on yourself but don't do it in Russia. Look at the reality as the transient phenomenon.
Also it is very comfortable to print letters using a computer. It is easier to change a letter, which you have already written than to write again - you will save your time and you can correspond with more men and do the best choice.

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